Food for thought 1:
Absence makes the heart grows fonder.
vs
Out of sight, out of mind.
Kenny Roger (country western singer and owner of Kenny Rogers) was asked in an interview, 'Does absence makes the heart grows fonder?' He said 'No'and attributed his two divorces to being separated from his wives while on tour.
Absence makes the heart grows fonder. Can it make the heart grow weary?
Maybe absence simply confirms what's really in the heart. If it's close to the heart, absence only makes the heart grows fonder. If it's not, absence makes the heart forget/grow weary.
Maybe. Maybe not.
Food for thought 2:
"I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love."
- Mother Teresa
Too much food will cause suffocation. Let's not feed too much on these things.